Mrs. Everything follows the lives of two sisters from childhood and throughout their lives, from the1950s until present day. The older one, Jo is a rebel who is convinced her mother dislikes her and that she is inferior in some way.
...the worst was true. Something was wrong with her. She was broken, she was twisted, she was unnatural, like her mother had said. She would never be fixed or made right.
In contrast, Bethie is the perfect daughter who is more traditional yet also suffers from feelings of inferiority.
...and sometimes—a lot of the time—it felt like her skin no longer fit her, and her body was only a collection of flaws to be fixed or at least disguised, an endless source of despair.
When the two sisters grow up, they switch roles — Jo lives a traditional life whereas Bethie is a free spirit who gets swept up in the counterculture. The story is essentially about each of the two sisters coming of age and then seeking their place in the world and their purpose. They both want to live fulfilled lives and find happiness. There is also a third main character that I would describe as their relationship, which would include the role they play in each other’s life.
Jo and Bethie are both likable and relatable - there are aspects of each that will certainly resonate with you. We witness their trials and tribulations as well as the key pivotal moments in their lives that ultimately define them. Weiner explores the different choices that women have as times change — a career, a stay-at-home mom, trying to have it all (working and being a mother), etc. We also witness mother-daughter relationships as well as relationships between sisters over the generations.
Besides highly relatable characters, Mrs. Everything includes many topical issues such as sexual abuse by a man in position of authority, LGBTQ, rape, racism, eating disorders, drug abuse as well as historical topics like woman’s lib, civil rights and the counterculture in the 1960s-‘70s.
What was the point of watching her weight now? Once, she’d thought beauty was power, but now she could see that it was just trouble. A pretty face, a cute figure, a smile, all of those were weak spots. They were ways in, and Bethie wanted to be armored, defended, unbreakable.
...she wondered whether they would ever not try to have it all and do it all and do all of it flawlessly. Would the day ever come when simply doing your best would be enough? Her generation hadn’t managed it, and neither had her daughters.
This is the first book I’ve read by Jennifer Weiner and I really enjoyed her writing style. I loved her metaphors/similes and found them particularly clever. I will definitely read more of her work.
She hates me, Jo would think, but even that didn’t hurt so much, because her father loved her, and she could carry his love, like a glowing coal in the center of her chest, feeling its warmth even in the face of her mother’s fury.
Her mom reminded her of a rubber band that had been snapped so many times until all of its resilience was used up, and it just hung there, stretched out and useless and limp.
My problem is that a lot of things taste as good as thin feels.
It was as if Jo had bought a ticket for a trip Bethie couldn’t take; like she was already on her way to a country where Bethie would never become a citizen, where she would always speak the language with an accent. Bethie would possibly be able to visit, but she’d always have to leave, to go back to her own place, to stand at the border and wave and mouth I love you across the divide.